{"id":469,"date":"2009-08-23T17:08:00","date_gmt":"2009-08-23T22:08:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/?p=469"},"modified":"2009-08-11T17:46:39","modified_gmt":"2009-08-11T22:46:39","slug":"ten-ways-to-ease-sibling-rivalry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/?p=469","title":{"rendered":"Ten Ways to Ease Sibling Rivalry"},"content":{"rendered":"
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The nature of children means they are bound to fight with one another; it\u2019s part of being human. Sibling rivalry may be common, but that doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t to do something about it. Try using one or more of these ten ways to ease sibling rivalry to bring peace to your home.<\/p>\n

1. Ask your older children to help with the younger ones. This will encourage your children to feel proud of being an older brother or sister and will help them build a better relationship.<\/p>\n

2. Do your best not to compare your children, especially while they\u2019re in the same room. It\u2019s obvious that your children are different, but you don\u2019t want them feeling as if there\u2019s something wrong because they\u2019re not the same. It may also cause your children to believe you love one of them more than the other.<\/p>\n

3. Let them handle their own disagreements. It may not be easy to do, but it\u2019s important to let them resolve some of their own conflicts. You also want to avoid taking sides because it might give the impression you favor one child over the other.<\/p>\n

4. Explain to your children that however angry they might get, cruelty and violence are unacceptable. Let them know you won\u2019t stand for hitting, kicking or hateful words. When your children resolve their problems peacefully, be sure to praise them for doing so.<\/p>\n

5. Take your child out of the room if you must punish or scold them. It\u2019s important not to do this in front of the other children because it may cause the child not being scolded to tease the one who was.<\/p>\n

6. Have a special date each month for you to spend with each child. Spending individual time with each child doing things they enjoy will let them know how special they are to you. It will also help your children have your undivided attention, if only for a little while.<\/p>\n

8. Set limits as far as what is acceptable behavior and what is not. Hitting, name-calling, and putting one another down are not acceptable and you\u2019ll want to step in if your children begin using any of those tactics. You may not want to act like the police, but it may be necessary at times.<\/p>\n

9. Family meetings can be helpful for letting children voice differences or complaints. They\u2019re also an opportunity for parents to restate family rules about how to treat one another, or add new rules.<\/p>\n

10. Choose your battles wisely. You know your children aren\u2019t always going to agree, so you might spend all of your time coming between them if you don\u2019t let them handle things on their own. Squabbling about who had a toy first isn\u2019t that important, but pestering until they feel they have no recourse but to strike out definitely needs your attention.<\/p>\n

Having children can be a joy; however, it can also be stressful for parents when the children argue and fight. Using one of these ten ways to ease sibling rivalry may work for your family. It can\u2019t hurt to give them a try.<\/p>\n

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