{"id":5099,"date":"2015-08-04T08:00:43","date_gmt":"2015-08-04T13:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/?p=5099"},"modified":"2018-08-21T01:07:20","modified_gmt":"2018-08-21T06:07:20","slug":"raising-grateful-kids-in-an-entitled-world-review","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/?p=5099","title":{"rendered":"Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World &#8211; Review"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This book came yesterday:<a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/1TFCX87\" target=\"_blank\"> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5109\" src=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204936076-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_20151203_204936076\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204936076-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204936076-576x1024.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>From <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/1TFCX87\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon<\/a>:<a href=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204936076.jpg\"> <\/a>\u201cBut everyone else has it.\u201d \u201cIf you loved me, you\u2019d get it for me!\u201d When you hear these comments from your kids, it can be tough not to cave. You love your children?don\u2019t you want them to be happy and to fit in? Kristen Welch knows firsthand it\u2019s not that easy.  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.xavy.fr\/nike-air-max-90-femme-2017.html\">nike air max 90 femme 2017<\/a> In fact, she\u2019s found out that when you say yes too often, it\u2019s not only hard on your peace of mind and your wallet?it actually <i>puts your kids at long-term risk<\/i>. In <i><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/1TFCX87\" target=\"_blank\">Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World<\/a><\/i>, Kristen shares the ups and downs in her own family\u2019s journey of discovering why it\u2019s healthiest <i>not<\/i> to give their kids everything.  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fjallravenkankenoutlet.me.uk\/\">Fjallraven Kanken Outlet<\/a> Teaching them the difference between \u201cwant\u201d and \u201cneed\u201d is the first step in the right direction. With many practical tips and anecdotes, she shares how to help kids become hardworking, fulfilled, and successful adults.  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.xavy.fr\/nike-pegasus.html\">nike pegasus<\/a> It\u2019s never too late to raise grateful kids. Get ready to cultivate a spirit of genuine appreciation in your family and create a home in which your kids don\u2019t just say?but <i>mean<\/i>!?\u201cthank you\u201d for everything they have.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> I picked up the book expecting to like it but not be too impressed. I&#8217;ve read SO many parenting books and many are just &#8230; &#8216;eh.  Not this one.  In fact, after a quick first read I&#8217;ve decided I&#8217;m going through it again with highlighter in hand.  Keep in mind I don&#8217;t have young kids at home anymore but I really like some of the things this book has to say. Here&#8217;s another thing &#8230; I&#8217;d suggest someone buy this book JUST to look at the little side notes. Do you know what I mean?  The little highlighted text from the book that the publisher puts in the margins?  They&#8217;re good.   <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fjallravenkankensale.me.uk\/\">fjallraven kanken uk<\/a> Really Good. &nbsp; Here are a few that grabbed me so I snapped some shots with my cell phone: <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/1TFCX87\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5104\" src=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204728016-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_20151203_204728016\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204728016-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204728016-576x1024.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;We had been guilty of fitting Jesus into our lives, instead of fitting our lives into Jesus.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> Ok. Ouch. Think about it. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; And this: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/1TFCX87\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5106 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204638626-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_20151203_204638626\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204638626-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204638626-576x1024.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><\/a>&#8220;It&#8217;s hard to teach our kids to be different from the world if we look just like the world. It&#8217;s time to take back our living rooms, tune out media and turn off technology.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> So yeah&#8230; you don&#8217;t hear that too often from a modern day parent.  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Trust me on this one&#8230; we&#8217;re on the other side of this with adult children and see how very much we failed in this area. &nbsp; &nbsp; How about this: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/1TFCX87\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5100\" src=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204448938-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_20151203_204448938\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204448938-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204448938-576x1024.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><\/a>&#8220;Kids&#8217; temporary unhappiness &#8211; learning to submit to authority and obedience &#8211; is worth it if it produces future adults who love God and others.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> Truth.  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fjallravenkankensale.me.uk\/kanken-mini.html\">Fjallraven Kanken Mini<\/a> Right there.  In a sentence.  Not easy &#8211; but true. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; Next up: <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/1TFCX87\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5101 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204403028-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_20151203_204403028\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204403028-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/parentingzoo.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_20151203_204403028-576x1024.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><\/a>Perhaps my favorite quote in the book because I&#8217;ve been thinking and or saying something similar for years&#8230; <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Society has shifted truth by bombarding us with an idea until it&#8217;s normalized.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> Um, yep.  Just look at fashion, movies or almost anything else in our culture and compare it to even just 50 years ago. Just think about it. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; Ok, I could go on and on but I&#8217;d rather you run to <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/1TFCX87\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon (click)<\/a>  or your favorite local or other online retailer and buy a copy for yourself.  Available in paperback, Kindle and Audio versions &#8211; (click below) <iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ss&amp;ref=ss_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=funevents4gir-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=1496405293&amp;asins=1496405293&amp;linkId=H3Y5X4KZAUVLTK6K&amp;show_border=true&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=true\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"> <\/iframe> <iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ss&amp;ref=ss_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=funevents4gir-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=B012P6HTWS&amp;asins=B012P6HTWS&amp;linkId=CCTDD6QMIUMKJSAR&amp;show_border=true&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=true\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"> <\/iframe> <iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ss&amp;ref=ss_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=funevents4gir-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=1494568861&amp;asins=1494568861&amp;linkId=NUKJR7KV6VIDIE37&amp;show_border=true&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=true\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"> <\/iframe> <em>Yep, I received a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.  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