No matter how much your child enjoys school, at some point they\u2019re probably going to try to convince you they\u2019re too sick for school. You may not be concerned if this happens once in a while, but when it occurs often in a week or two, you may want to know if something else is going on. As a parent you want to know if they\u2019re trying to avoid something or someone.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not unusual for children at school to be mean to one another. Just think back to when you were in school and you\u2019ll remember. Today\u2019s kids, it seems, can be far crueler than children from past generations ever thought of being. It could be this reason why your child says they\u2019re too sick for school.<\/p>\n
When your child complains about not feeling well all week and yet miraculously gets better on Friday at 4:00 p.m., you know something is up. What are your options? How can you help your child get through whatever their problem is so they can go to school with their head held high?<\/p>\n
You want to let your child know that they can come to you and talk to you about anything. It doesn\u2019t matter if the subject matter makes you or them uncomfortable, they\u2019ll be glad to know they can talk to you. Being available and truly listening to what they have to say is very important.<\/p>\n
Ask them questions without sounding like you\u2019re a lawyer cross-examining someone on the stand. You can ask them questions such as \u201cis everything okay at school\u201d or \u201care you having problems with someone at school\u201d without it sounding like the third degree. If they will answer you without looking away or avoiding the question, things are probably alright in that area. It\u2019s when they begin avoiding your eyes or stammering to find an answer that you may have hit on the problem.<\/p>\n
Here are some of the areas where your child may be having a problem and yet be afraid to talk with you about it:<\/p>\n
* They may not being doing as well in school as they think you expect them to, so if they\u2019re not in school, they may feel they have an excuse.<\/p>\n
* There may be another student who is causing them stress by bullying them.<\/p>\n
* If there\u2019s a new baby in the home, your child may simply be feeling left out and trying to be at home with you and the baby.<\/p>\n
* Have there been changes in your home such as a death in the family? Perhaps your child is afraid to let you out of their sight because they\u2019re afraid you\u2019ll die, too.<\/p>\n
There are many reasons why a child may claim to be too sick for school. Try to determine what their reason is by talking to and really listening to what they\u2019re saying and not saying. When you have the reason figured out, you\u2019ll be better equipped to determine the best course of action to take.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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